
“I never really had a mom who was there for me,” Jessica reflects. She experienced a lot of trauma growing up with a single mom who had three jobs. “I sometimes wondered if she worked so much because she didn’t want to be home.”
At one point, she became a ward of the state. This combined with the mental health struggles of her family took a toll on Jessica as a child.
“My teenage years were not any better. I had no help growing up, and was taken advantage of my whole life, even by my family,” she shares. At 17, she turned to substances to cope with that feeling of neglect, admitting, “Bad attention is better than no attention.”
At her lowest point, Jessica’s choices landed her in prison… and she lost custody of her children. After she was released, Jessica felt determined to change her life around and she came to the Mission where she was warmly welcomed. “I was very happy,” she recalls.
She is grateful to the Mission for giving her stable housing so she can get her kids back. “This is the best thing that has ever happened to me,” she says.
“Since coming to the Mission, I am very hopeful for housing, getting my girls back and starting a new life.”
Crossroads has provided Jessica with the support she never had. “I’ve always had to do everything by myself. The support system here is phenomenal. Any resources I need, day-to-day interactions, are great,” she says. “It’s more than I could ask for.”
Beyond the services to help her get back on track, Jessica is grateful to have people she can talk to and count on. “Crossroads is like a family. It’s a whole different experience being here. It’s great and I’m very thankful for it.”
Thank you for your love and support of neighbors like Jessica. Your kindness has reminded her that she is not alone and that a better life is possible! “I’m thankful to the Mission for showing me that there are good people out there, showing me my self-worth, helping me with housing and for being there for me.”